Why I can’t send message to people on this side

At the time of writing there are 1039 people registered with this site located in the United States of America. 83 of those are in the state of Texas.

As you have paid for a subscription you should be able to message everyone on this site, unless one of the two following conditions are true.

1. The person you wish to message has checked the option No interaction with members who don’t match my search criteria.
2. You have checked the option No interaction with members who don’t match my search criteria.

I would guess not many people do check No interaction with members who don’t match my search criteria. So maybe you have.

I recommend you go to Meet People->My Account or click the three cogs icon. Alternatively just to go  https://unjabbed.net/?renc=account

Scroll down the web page until you see No interaction with members who don’t match my search criteria. Then make sure the option is unchecked. Click Save.

When this option is checked, it means that people that are not in your desired age range or match one of your selected relationship types (serious relationship, open relationship, friendship) cannot message you and you in turn are prevented from messaging them.

This does demonstrate the importance of not selecting too narrow an age range. The age range is specified during the registration process. You can alter this later by going to https://unjabbed.net/?renc=account . It is a good idea to select both serious relationship and friendship. Your selected age range will also restrict who you see on the front page under Featured Profiles and New Entrants. The front page of this site only shows a tiny fraction of people here. You should first of all search for people by city and then if you don’t find anybody move on over to searching by country and region, with the city field left blank.