Feedback from women on this site

Only a small percentage of people on this website contact us in our capacity as administrators.

Some countries are better represented on this site than others, such as the Netherlands and Canada. This is because we were able to advertise in https://druthers.ca and https://ninefornews.nl, which both have significant numbers of readers – quite easily in the hundreds of thousands. We have contacted many other alternative news websites, but most of them do not reply to us. The ones that do reply are too expensive for their meagre offerings. Some are obviously controlled opposition as judged by the fact they expose one hoax, yet pump others. Oops, sorry… We were fooled. How did that happen?

Well back to the feedback from the women who contacted us. It seems some women tell us they get too many messages from men, who are too far away to realistically form relationships with. If this carries on for too long, the women end up deleting or hiding their profiles.

We can see how this can create a vicious cycle of men in an underpopulated region on this site chasing away women in a more represented one.

One woman reported annoyance at being sent a contact request from a man who stated in his profile he cannot send messages because he hasn’t paid for a subscription. We have “Ask for a contact” and “Smile” buttons on our website so people can see if someone is interested in them before paying for a subscription. (Contact requests and smiles result in a notification email being sent to the recipient, so even if they have not logged into the site for some time they will see it – unless they have turned off notification emails or have ignored the previous one!) However be careful what you say in your profile as it may look as if you are putting the onus on the other person to do all the work

The unvaccinated are only 10 to 20% of the population. We have very little funds for advertising. Most people on this website don’t take out subscriptions. Expecting an instant response is just not realistic.

We could put up our prices to enable us to afford more advertising, but the main reason for creating this website was to be a cheaper alternative to mainstream dating sites.

Online advertising is expensive and the results are a gamble.

Trying to achieve everything the easiest and cheapest way isn’t always going to work. In fact it is probably counterproductive if the whole community is taken into consideration.

1) Donate money to us so we can afford more advertising on top of your subscription.

2) Download and print out our adverts and distribute them in public places and noticeboards.

At the time of writing, we are paying for advertisements on Twitter so our current members have a chance of meeting someone near to them in a sensible timescale. This does require a modicum of cooperation.