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I agree.  I also ask if she has been physical with a man who had the shots.  Because unless the shots they had were duds like saline, then there is shedding transfer especially with physical/sexual contact.  It makes it all the harder to find someone because even if they didn’t get the shots, they may have had a flu shot with the mrna and other stuff or a flu/covid combo, or they have been with someone who had the shots.  At minimum, the person needs to not have had any of the shots themselves.  But I’m looking for no shots and no contact with others who were shot up.  And that’s my first and foremost criteria, everything else is secondary because without the first it’s a no go, and there’s no point getting attached and being tempted to compromise and become involved with someone who could shed the mrna stuff to you all because you have so much in common and could see it working out and want it to work out.  And you don’t want a potential increased risk of fertility/birth issues or to the future health of a child. Also need to consider other physical contact things, like wrestling/martial arts, or massage therapy.  I had tried out some grappling a few years back and it was good until I was practicing a move with one guy who I had overheard walking in that he had gotten the covid shots, he was telling someone else.  Because of the close contact and breathing in the same air space, I actually started having a kind of reaction, felt light headed and like I might pass out or that something would happen, didn’t feel good or want to stay but I somehow made it till the end of class, didn’t want to say anything in class or leave early.  I stopped after that and didn’t continue classes, I think I had some on going effects for at least a week also. Unfortunately there is so much intermingling in all different ways and people just want to live and not worry about everything and have fun.  Dancing is another activity I haven’t done since the covid shots came out.  Took classes, and then the company doing the classes started requiring proof of covid shots.  Made me a bit angry for their part in exclusion and coercion for people to get injected, and never went back.  We would really need to live in our own covid/flu shot free community and have all of our own activities and everything.  It’s hard trying to take care of our own health and well being while also wanying to just live and not worry about things, buy also not compromising and reminding ourselves of the truth and accepting how our reality is now.

We need some way to test or see in some way how people may be effected by the shots and by shedding.  I don’t really know how it works exactly and if shedding from close contact will result in temporary or permenant effects.  There is evidence that atleast some who got shot now have mac addresses that can be sensed with blutooth.  But for changes by shedding, I’m not sure if something could be seen with a microscope, or maybe a microbiome analysis, or some kind of autoimmune response test?

I know I can’t avoid everything.  And will probably not ask more than “have you had the shots?” And “have you been physically romantic/sexual with anyone who has had the shots and did any of them sleep around?

Also I haven’t had massages except for a few since the covid shots came out for the same reason, and never had a reaction from those but didn’t want to keep risking it.  Almost all massage therapists seem to have had the shots and they don’t ask or mention about the shots because they just want the business.  I just hate how everything has been so changed and ruined by all the people who are responsible for the shots.

You’ll have to decide for yourself though your own priorities and what you want and are willing to risk or not.   As far as how exactly to ask, that can be hard, and can’t really help you there, can be touchy and awkward.   Different depending on the person.  Easier if natural conversation leads into it.  It might be easier to try to first see what they think about covid, the shots, conspiracies, mandates, so on.  Or just come out directly and ask.  But because some people might lie for privacy sake, getting to their personal views on similar topics can get you closer to the answer and can also make them feel more free to just honestly answer if they also feel/know that you both are similar.  Or at least if they don’t have a problem with telling you.  Dating profiles can be helpful when they just say they have the covid shots and or require others to have it because you can avoid them.  And similarly you can state the opposite and some will avoid and maybe some will also be like you.  This site at least brings people who don’t have the shots together, at least to have some community.

Also, forgot about another important thing to ask related to the shots.  Has the person had any blood infusion, or any kind of transplant?  Because they are not marking and differing between vaxxed and non vaxxed blood, or if an organ is coming from an injected person.  People are getting vaxxed by blood transfusions without even realizing it, or it happens in an emergency and they don’t think about it till it’s done.

And sorry, I think you were looking for other things to ask about and look for, not related to the shots.  And I also wrote a bunch.